The Achievement Habits

Our mind does not reside in every event or everything that happens with us. It takes very logical reasoning. Why does one of your friends call you to say that Chaal Yaar with me is a very important thing but you tell him that no man  I am busy, I can not come yet sorry. Actually, you were watching a movie on your phone from which you did not want to leave. Now later that day in the kitchen you are cutting something and your finger gets cut. Now your mind takes the region  Have you lied to your friend, that is why your finger was cut, but actually I had nothing to do with this finger cut, your finger was cut because of your negligence, simple thing through the exam, assume that you are your friend  You are sitting thinking about something that you have not talked about for a few days, and the message gets a call. Your Mind Division finds you.  Think about people and one of those three calls you and I caught him and left 299, then the first one too.  What I am giving you from the pride book is that if you stop searching everywhere, you will not be able to take the decision or take responsibility nor will you be able to move forward, I will explain with the exam.

 It must have happened to you at some time or other, you have to go to a meeting, you have given time to meet someone, you have to go there, but you reach there late, then when you enter there, your mind starts moving late.  What is the reason for being given and your mind finds out the reasoning? It says that the traffic station is speaking due to traffic, and someone has stopped you in one way to ask for the address.

 Well the truth was with you too, but the problem was not to ask anyone's address because of your being late here, in fact, you did not go to the meeting to meet that person privately.  Let's leave early because you already knew that the traffic is going to stay and you stop to ask more ways, it is a normal thing

Big ideas

1.  We should not find a reason in everything

2.  Don't Networking but      Make Real Friends : -

 I don't like this world. Whenever you treat someone like a business contact, you are becoming a friend, never approach anyone in such a way that I can do something for them so that they can do something for me as a friend.  Just think of what I can do for them, just what they will do for you, what they should do, these things should not come in the mind when you have more knowledge than others and your attitude will always give your answer.  Business shares with others, it comes back to you by 10 times. Don't do networking. Don't look at everything at business level, but make good friends.

 3.  Reframing : -

 When we change the angle of viewing a problem, the problem either gets easier or it turns out that she was not the problem. One day she had to go to see a movie with my friends but I also got some work that day.  It was in my mind but he started wandering that I have to go to the movie but I have to do the work too, so I started feeling that I would not be able to go, so I removed it and replaced it and I have to go to the movie and I also work  I have to do this, my mind my dear started thinking how these two works would be possible and the idea came and worked too. Reframing was a very powerful piece. When the problem comes in front of you, then say that I have a problem rather  You should say that I have a situation in front of me or there is a challenge before me. By reframing in this way, we can solve the problems without panic and it is a sign of successful people that they focus on the solution, not the problems.  Rather unsuccessful people focus on the first problem and they are responsible for all their problems.  Our people do not believe in themselves and they blame others. They feel that we are the responsibility of all our problems. They have done nothing or they have never made a mistake. These were the three big ideas.