Self Dependent

  The word self-reliant is going on. Jokes are being made. Mines are being made. Unfortunately, we do not understand the real meaning of this word.

  I believe that every citizen of our country should make himself self-reliant and this country will also become self-sufficient.

Let's start with a story

                      Real Story

 There was a child who used to belong from a very poor family but was very fast in studying, every time he used to top the class, his students started burning with him, so many of them went to the student principal and said that the bag  The money is being stolen from them. They suspect the boy only steals the money. The principal assured him that he will investigate and if he is found guilty, he will take action. The principal started to know about the boy.  And when he started keeping an eye on it, he came to know that and everyday after school leave, he used to work with a Mali. The principal came to know that he was very honest who would pay money to the gardener and he would pay the school fees.  He used to buy books and buy his food from the money that was left, he had his daily routine, went to school, went to the gardener, worked hard, paid the fees of some, kept his own books and used to make his own food.  If the boy was self-reliant, the principal told him more, I have seen that you son worked very hard  You are studying well in school, you are also working outside, why don't you get your school fees forgiven? The boy said, I consider myself so self-sufficient so responsible, I can pay my school fees myself. I know  It is that the parents of those who are studying with me are paying their fees by working hard, but when I am so self-reliant, why should I forgive my fees and Sir, I have learned from you that a human being is not better than luck by his actions and attitude  It is believed that the principal felt proud after hearing this and the students who had complained of the child bowed down in shame, the name of the child was Bankim Chandra Chattopaadhyaay who wrote the song Vande Mataram.

 If you are in the twelfth if your school fees are paying college fees. Your parents have to think seriously there is a thing called Self Respect, which you are tearing up, you studied for 12 years in school.  3 years Total 15 years in graduation and you apply for a job in a company, write yourself as a fresher, 15 years, you put in some things and you are a fresher, how are you pressure because you have not learned some skills, you just have a useless degree  You are working hard, which took 15 years for you to take, and you are left fresher than fresher.

 If you spend 2 years working hard on learning a skill, you become an expert in one thing, you have a line of companies and you need an expert in their market if you are self-sufficient.  Otherwise, it is a very big region that you were running behind the degree, not behind the skills. Most of the people keep waiting for the right time, if they will get the degree then it will be done, then I will give you a bitter truth.  Let me tell you that the best time to do whatever work you want was yesterday, what is going out, the second is the best time, you do not have to let it go, you will never be able to become self-reliant.  The taunts will go on decreasing, the listeners will get listening and if the person keeps on sitting then the first thing to become self-reliant

becoming self sufficient.

1. DON'T WAIT FOR RIGHT TIME : - 

You have to start developing skills from today, many people will say that which skill to develop, you have a very good thing called mobile, in it there is a technology called Internet, with the help of which you are watching this video that you have to Google  You have to search what skills are there in the coming time, see whether there is an expert before accepting any advice, whether it is in demand or not.

2. STOP ASKING FOR PERMISSION : -

You have to quit the habit of asking for permission from others, when you ask others for permission before doing any work, you ask others, this is the idea, if I ask this at home, what happens if their answer ends your motivation?  Have you had the zeal that is over, you have to become self-reliant, then listen to your voice, listen to your invoice, you know daily what to do, if you go to take permission then you will regret it.

3. SHARPEN THE SAW : -

                        Book Name 

Sharpen Covey's book 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People I tell in a story

 A man was passing through a forest where he sees that a woodcutter was trying to cut the tree from his saw, he was very upset, he was not cutting his stomach, he was abusing the tree because he was working hard.  But the tree was not being cut, so the man asked the woodcutter, brother, what is the problem, then the woodcutter said that my saw does not have an edge.  It says I have to stop the cutting work to get the edge, then the man says if you get a sharp edge in your yari, you can cut trees quickly. Lakad Ara said angrily, but I do not have the time to understand that something  Can't be gone from there. This story is a relive for all of us. When we are unable to do any work, no work is done properly by us, then we get upset with life and instead of developing ourselves, instead of making ourselves better, without any edge RC  Keep cutting the stomach and keep getting upset, stop doing it, stop the edge on your saw, more effective.  Will you be able to become dependent.

4.  BE PROACTIVE : -   

If you want to be self-reliant then be proactive but active is reactive.

Suppose a person who is unemployed is taunted at home if he is unemployed, he will be reactive that I am unemployed because of you, you did not teach me in a good school, you did not teach me in a good college, you did not do that.  If that person is proactive, you will take the responsibility of being unemployed. He is unemployed because he did not learn any skill, he is unemployed, he did not do any planning, he is unemployed because he was living under care care. This man will relieve my mistake.  I have to fix it, I am the one who can change my life, it is called proactive approach.

                ATTITUDE

 Is your attitude a sheep goat? She keeps walking in the herd behind the owner. They have no idea where she is going. Their owner takes them and bites them. Only then she stays in the herd behind the owner.  He does not use but a lion he rules. He knows that it takes courage to stand here and to be independent to fight the war of his life, he needs strength to leave the rest to get his desired destination, so keep your steps.  How is your attitude lion or sheep goat for.

 If you want to be self-reliant then keep these four things in mind

 1. Do not wait for the right time, no time is going to come right, today is the right time. Actually the first time was from the first one which you lost the second right time is today and you do not have to lose it, then you develop your skills.  You have to meet the experts in any one or two tasks, the value of the experts is.

 2. Do not ask for permission from others Believe yourself, if you ask for permission, you will demotivate the words of others, trust your own decisions.

 3. Do not just work hard without head and feet; see if you are getting results or not getting them, then where are you not getting what is the skill that you are not focusing on yourself first.  Celebrate better try again.

4. Be Proactive

 that is, be a responsible person, if you do not take responsibility for your situation, then you cannot move forward. Another means of being proactive is that the work that is given to you  Do more that responsibility is given to you, take responsibility. Now you do more work than given to you, then you take more responsibility then people become dependent on you when people become dependent on you, then your value increases when your value increases.  If you increase your respect also increases then your income also increases

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